Why??? ask UrSelf... U will get it rIght...

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HiYa!!!

So.. why the topic is "Why??? ask UrSelf... U will get it rIght..."...
THIS Question.. only I can answer here.. ha ha.. kidding..

well.. but have you ever noticed... how does it work wHen U ask A qUestion, WHY.. in any situation..U can always tHink of maNy answers to the situation tHen..

I am sure you must have never thought abou it... Did u?? :)
well.. this is the right time then...

So, wat happens when you ask this question "WHY"... u get a reason for an answer...
right??
Let me put it this way... lets start with a simple question...
WHY do we eat food?
we eat food to fight hunger... (not always, but thats what it is all abou)
right?..

Now... u must be thinking... how does that make a difference in our life..
I am not talking abou EATING here.. I am talkin abou the question "WHY"... ;)
If you notice, the question with WHY has a tendency to bring a reason as the answer.. you get a reason for WHY is it happening...

so... when you see anything... and if you see something wrong (in your view)... JUST ASK THIS QUESTION to urself...
WHY IS IT HAPPENING...
This will simplify the situation for you...
It worKs jUst lIke Magic... trust me on this...
We can find help with this question almost everytime in any situation.

For example lets take a situation... One of your frends is not talking to you nicely...
NOW... lets analyze..
lets ask it to ourself WHY is it so.. Think of anything that you did wrong to her/him..

Or something that might have hurt her/him... u will find a reason for sure... nt jst that.. once u know wat went wrong... its time to get it right and sort it out... its that simple... isnt it?

generally... we tend to ignore such situations.. which is not a good practice.

tHre are somEtimes, when you see that there is no good reason for such thing.. then it is nothin but EGO problem... time will correct that...

nOw, here comes the best part abou it...

tHis is how it wOrks foR me... If sOmeone tAlks to me rudely... or with a taunt...

 InStead of fighting it back with a similar reply, I quickly ask it to myself... wHy did he/she do tHis to mE??

yes... and surprisingly... almost 80% of time... such rUde behaviour is becoze of jealousy or ego problem.. :D

tHats tRUe....

Although it happens rarely with me... 

Yes... here comes another important point to this discussion... and that is... we humans have a tendancy to loose our cool quicker than anyone else... which makes us unstable... 

thats right...

OK... let me ask you something... wat will yOu do, if someone come up to you and say: "jackass !!! wat the fuck r u doing?"

I know... it sounds irritating,,, 

it is actually a very TeMpting question, which tempts you to reply back with a bLow on the other guys face... :D.

which brings out a quick but a frustrating reply... which could be anything... but watever it would be... it would be again of similar tone...

 u get angry..  

isnt it right...?

but wat happens when you think of it for sometime... just think wHy did I say tHat???

here, u will realize that it happened for ur good, to make you understand a point... but in normal situation, such conversation is a result of jealousy, ego, greed, frustration (due to anything, at that point of time.) etc..

so wat shud be done here.... ???

JUST BE SILENT... YES... EVERY question DOESNT NEED AN ANSWER in return....

THE ONE WHO INSULTED YOU, DIDNT DO THAT FOR AN ANSWER... HE JST WANTED TO WENT IT OUT...

SILENCE... no replies... and this will sooner or later make the other person realize that he did something wrong...

and this will cool u down... coz if you wont... you would come up with a reply... which is again similar in tone... and this would continue till an awkward scene...

WHY???

a nice word... anytime, anywhre...

And here I wOuld like to bring another situation... ThIs oNe is iMportant... coz almost everyone of us go through this, some or the other period of our life...

aNd thIs is when someone nEar to yOu, breaks up with U... right...

tHis is really a hard time for those who go through it...

jSt imagine...

U lOve someOne... aND everythin iS gOin fine between yOu guys... and oNe fine daY he/she would come up and say... "this needs to stop here"...

wat could be your reaction??

First: it will surely break ur heart into pieces.... :)

second: u will keep thinking abou the past, which seemed so promising...

but wat do we miss here???

we missed on to think : WHY did this happen...

nO need to bring negative thoughts abou the other person,,, jst reason for her/him aswell... ask it to yourself: "whre did I go wrong, or wHy did HE/SHE left me???

nw jst gv it a thought...!!!

wHy?? the reasons could be many.. bUt u will FIND IT RIGHT....

it will ease you and help you move on... and that is exactly wat you need in life...

move on... 

SO.... ALL WE NEED TO DO TO MAKE THE RIGHT MOVE.. IS CHEW OUR THINK GUM BEFORE WE TAKE ANY ACTION......

well.... hope the point is clear... but trust me on this... it works jst like magic... and will change the way you think, and take life...

see you later....

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The RiCh..... UnNotiCed...

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Hi eVeryone... hope u r LiVing ur Life well... ;)

hmm... here we are... again... thinking abou something that many of us are bothered about...

yess,,, I am talking abou money.. :D 

MONEY... $10000 !!!!

even thinking abou the above figure sometimes make you feel really gud... isnt it?? :)

I knw... welll this is not abou money exactly... but somethin

 that it cant buy...

we can think of many things that it cant buy.... but saying next words could bring disagreement in you !!!

Yes... coz wat i am saying is: MONEY CANT BUY ALL THE RICHES for you....

You must be thinking "But MONEY = RICH"

hmm... well not exactly. The complete sentence is somethin like this... MONEY =  RICH in WEALTH/BANK BALANCE/ Luxury etc...

If this is all that you look for in your life... PLEASE DONT READ ANY FURTHER... YOU MAY SIMPLY CLOSE THIS WINDOW... thats a humble request...

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For those... who think life is more than anything thats material... here are some thoughts.. that might be common in us...

When I luk out... my frends, their girlfrends (not necessarily love), and all such relations...

I see.. that every human brain has a tendency of making judgement... analysing wat it see through eyes... and hence behave accordingly...

People choose others as frends.. who go by their thoughts... or share similar thoughts..

isnt it???

People like to be with those who they think would never be a responsibility... think abou it deeply to understand it....

isnt that right???

well... so here comes that part of riches...

so wat happens when you see someone who luks rich ( in wealth..)...???

If you answer this honestly... U FEEL SECURE IN his/her presence... but wat if he/she doesnt like to share his so called wealth with you... :)

It is fine to think like that... luking for security in life ... cos thats natural... but being in his/her presence only for the above reason is not genuine... is it?

NO!!!

if it is....

that shows how greedy you have become.... HA HA HA... thre you go.. :D

so... wat should we do then... stop judging people with only their rich/wealthy luks...

If you need someone RICH to be in your life... as frend...

Luk for every other thing he/she is rich with...

YES.. YOU CAN BE RICH IN BEHAVIOUR, THOUGHTS, CHARM, LOVE...  and everything else that puts u in HUMAN race...  Everything that you are born with... MONEY is SOMETHING YOU EARN... CAR IS SOMETHING YOU BUY WITH IT.. so as any other material thing...

BUT YOUR QUALITY IS SOMETHING YOU DEVELOP... YOU CAN NEVER EXCHANGE OR BUY IT....

Judge people... if you do... by the quality of his soul... and not what he is wearing or how he appears to you...

If someone luks really wealthy... just imagine him in a rugged outfit and with his present quality... that will help you make the right choice...

Remember.... to be HAPPY and NICE... you NEED NO "MONEY and pretty  LOOKs"...

i am in a little hurry guys.. want to share more with you here... but need to go now... 

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Life is beautiful.... live it... dnt waste it... ;)

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Welll.... a quick short intro ;).... My name is KirTiRaJ... ;) thats all... you will get to know more abou me later....

But the reason I am here... is somthing serious...

Frends... the time right now is 10:18 PM by my watch... and I hv already had dinner...
So, here I am... thnking abou life...

ight..!!
have you ever tried to explore life???
wat is it...?? wats life???
no idea wat i m talkin abou, right???...

Yaa... its boring... but how can you be such a DUMBO.... ??!!!
u dnt even know wat you are living??
thats sad.... well never mind... thats why I am here...
to help you with your journey...

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Now think abou it...
~~~a birth takes place.... BOY/ or GIRL...
~~~parents bring up their so called child...
~~~the child grows up and gains knowledge... from his parents or surrounding...
~~~he starts making decision... "wats right?? wats wrong..??"
~~~he works for living... works to earn money... to fulfill his needs...
~~~gets into a relationship... AND THE CYCLE CONTINUEss... with his coming generation...

but wat happens to the boy/ (or the girl)... well... he is no longer a boy... he is MAN/ or a WOMAN... isnt it???
lets take the baby as the baby boy...
so wat happens to him... lived his life... he is OLD now... and as no one is immortal.. he dies.....

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So... wat is he left behind with after life...??
Money??? His next generation..???
NOOoooo!!!!

None of the above.... he left his memories...ONLY... isnt it?
could he enjoy his life...? is that all he could do with this life...??
hmm.... u r thinking, right...??

think abou it??
wat would you call a life... whre you have no gud memories to think of...?
MEMORIES CANNOT BE EDITED nor IT CAN BE CHANGED !!!
IT IS UR PAST...THIS IS WAT YOU HAVE DONE !!!

so... the man above only has the memory of doin his work... and all the worldly stuff...!!!

how would he rejoice his memories??
he was actually lost... he forgot that life holds more meaning than wat you see...

Life is abou enjoying it, enjoying urself... and if not... it is not LIFE anymore..!!!
You can call it punishment... :) isnt it?

hmm...
now your next question would be...wat should we do then??? right??
Think....
yesss... think wat all you really like to do... all that makes you feel good...
REMEMBER... doing anything that brings happiness... can NEVER be a waste of time....!!! remember this... and start thinking about life... live it as you want... and not the way world wants you to...

YOU WILL LOVE IT!!!!
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