I nEvEr tHoUght tHat fRendS coUlD tEach u SoO much...!! bT iTs upTo U, waT u LeArn... ;)

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yeah...!!! tHats trUe... I have leaRnd alot frOm wAt God gave me... and from wats around me...

By tHe way... sorry for i cudnt write anything for a long time... bt who reAlly CarEs ..!!?? :D

So, here i am... well.. all this long I have been observing sUmthing strong...

and dAt is relationships.. I have alWays bEen wid and around my frends...
Frends frends and frends... and it took me hIgh.. so high dat i started returnin hOme lAte nights...

well, although we didnt do anythin wrong and absurd, late nights.. bt it was just that i considered and valued mY frends more than anythin... thAt i still do..

SO.. here i was.. me and mY frends... playin pool (well, i m still a beginner).. or maybe just surfing internet together.. planning our neXt trip to some new place .. maybe to some hIllsTation far away...





AnD wen i return hOme, i would have to go through a beautiful lecture on "WHAT THE HELL WERE U DOIN SOOO LATE at night", by my caring family :D... they had there reasons for they care alot for me.. i nvr questioned that though.. I was quite used to it..


aND this was/is my lIfe..
mAde frends wid evryone and anyone, bt some become special in tiMe...


I m not taLkin about any girl or a girlfrend here!!!

I always thOught that fRendship is eternal.. and this is true till this frendship is true..
didnt get wat I said?
lets understand one thing first...
Why do u make frends, or be frends with someone..???? (in true sense)


it is wen u meet someone and realise that u share similar thoughts..
this way, wen u ask for a suggestion from a frend, he can tell you something u could have thought of, but it just slipped out of ur mind..
its just like being with a spare brain (ur brain), in another body.. :D

isnt it??

well, thats not true all the time, coz many a times, we just like the other person and jst would like to be with him or her.. thats ok.. (till its not material likeness.. )

bUt like I said in previous posts... this material world is t0o influential... to such an extent, dat it can remake ur whole charactar.. and with that ur needs, ur thoughts.. just evrythin..

soo... lets get back to the story... ya.. soo.. i made many frends.. many are soo close to me that i can relate them and put them in my future plans, and would like to see them wid me in my gud times atleast..!!


So... this way, i made a very dear frend loooooooong time ago... we still are frends.. still pretty close to my heart though...
bt like i said.. IT IS TOO INFLUENTIAL..!! :) this world..

I dnt know why he wanted me as a frend... bt for me.. he was a very nice guy... a very calm, simple and innocent person... i know him from school times...
I still remember how calm and simple he was... i doubt whether it was his character or his circumstances that he reflected..
bt let me tell u guys.. watever he was, i nvr looked in his pocket for his frendship, like i dnt for any other..
bt, jst to make a point here...
i always strongly wished that if this time could change for him, and he could flaunt his wealth or MONEY like many other rich frends i had then...


He too had other frends, bt i think I was the closest to him... like he is for me...
I still remember, i used to tell him to be frends wid others in school, for if i m not there for him in the school...!!
I m sure he must have forgotten that too, now.. i hv noticed this in him.. poor guy, he has a tendency of forgetting things early.. my frend... bt he is still my dear frend..

we started sharing thoughts and so very time his thoughts were just mine.. as if its mee thinking that side... or vice-versa..
His family considered me as one of them.. they too liked me alot... and they still do i believe.. ( bt nw i think, whether it was only ME that they really liked..) ;) watever, it felt really gud...

My simple frend.. I cud barely take anything said wrong to him... I still remember the day, wen in our school a bully came to our classroom and was abou to slap him.. bt for the guy's bad luck, it dropped straight on my face.. and then I beat him to his near death.. :D that was fun though..

bt i cared for my frend alot.. and i still do..
bt things change...!!! people change...!!
...like I always prayed... GOD heard my prayers.. atleast for me..
My frend and the family flourished... money started flowing in.. I sTill rememBer wen he bOught his first mobike... He was Soooo happy.. as happy as I was for hIm.. as if I BoUght it..!!
my frend.. we used to just talk alot... about different things... just to know that we think always the same..!!!

i still remember, the days wen i used to ride to his place on my mobike without license or any papers.. i was underage for driving motorbike in India.. i was 16 or 17 then.. wearing the worlds biggest helmet on.. as if m an astronaut..!!
and just to tell u guys... i was like a stick man.. :D :D
bt I was so confident and careless.. for this frend is a lil tooo close to me.. and it was as if GOD wanted this to happen all the time.. And believe it or not.. it was as if all the traffic police went blind and always missed to see me...
even a child could tell them that i am one of his age... :D :D
No one could ever stop me then.. I used to lie at home saying that i m goin to a near market...!!
I DID IT FOR MYSELF... I Liked it alot... my frend.. thats all i needed then...
bt wen u like someone soo much.. some expectations sets up automatically..

Like i could nvr expect him to ride his bike over me intentionally to hurt me..!!! :D :D
or let me down in any ways... and wen it happens.. it really hurts.. not because I was demeaned, BECAUSE HE DID IT..!!! thats wat hurts... and it hurts really bad...




it feels as if i should just leave this world, and if possible go to a place faaaar away whre NO ONE... and no one could see me...



just me and me alone.. not even God...!!!!

hmm... bt in all those old times... i never thought that others do think their ways...

...so this frend was flourishin exactly the way i wished for him.. he started his business... i would not mind saying that i did advice him and always promoted him for wat he was/is doing...

though he says now, that it was he who did evrything by himself.. which is vry true in a way..
bt It feels bad at times for it was like, he thought i wanted to take all the credit for his work.. hmm....
well.. who cares... now he IS wat I always thought for him ... self sufficient, confident,
independent and on his own taking care of things, all by himself. I am very happy for his status now... bt something just changed..
like I said, situation changes, needs change, thoughts change and hence U do, at last..



Now, as my frend is well off and independent, he has attracted many frends... new frends... oh my god..!!! they are quite special to him, now.. i dnt know how and for wat..??? :D ha ha.. jst kiddin..




bt I m still thre for him... and would not mind giving a tight slap on his face to get him on track and see the depth of the world.. i dnt care if that would be the last day of our frendship then...
I still remember, wen i used to take Off my work from office, just to meet my frends. It was soo easy for me to do that... I dnt knw how I managed it all..

bt now.. wen I need some of my dear frend's time... his work is a lil too important for him.. for its wat gets him wats important in this world (money), and new frends will come on its own..!! :D hmm..

its funny but sad in a way... for it looks like how unreliable the world has become.. specially when u start seeing the world in ur frends..

I REALLY ADMIRE THE POTENTIAL OF MONEY, For it can soo easily take away things from u.. if u dnt have IT with u... its strange...

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I JUST WANT TO TELL YOU ALL... WHO CALLS ME A FREND... I JUST LOVE U ALLLLL ...
MANY OF U ARE REALLY SPECIAL TO Mee...

maybe Its wrong at my end to expect much out of anyone.. bt please dnt let this material world take a toll on u.. for wat it gets u is not real !!! or i would say.. not ETERNAL...!!!

money cannot buy frends.... please stick to it.. nevr let it buy u a frend... I know u would need to think about wat I said here.. please do...

Well.. I dnt know if this post has anything to do with the Title that i have given... But I jst want to tell u that I have learnd alot from all of u... Things like wat I shud do.. and WAT I SHUD NOT in the journey of life to make it real... I hope I am making rite choices here...
and it begins with the frends I choose...!!!

LOVE U ALL...!! my frends.. thanks a million.. for teaching me and showing me the hidden meaning of life in some or the other way...!!!!!! thank yoU..

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please dnt ask who is that frend i m talking abou.... remember... its just a story... :)
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Lyf is NOT a SYSTEM....!!!

alrite...!!

so here we r back... not on the track... HA HA.. i knw thats a PJ (poor joke).. :D

well... its been a long time for me to be here... so even I am slightly excited... !!! :D :D

Frends... all these days... I have been trying to share a lil more wid u... share wat i think, and most of us ignore...

U see.. the System we follow these days makes u really busy... nw wat to do... this SYSTEM I m talking abou cannot be over looked... for we call it LIFE..

confused rite??

Now, to understand wat m talking about... i want u to relax urself.. and ur brain. Yes

Do this wid me... Take a deep a breath.. open ur mouth making a circle, and slowly exhale it out ur mouth, without forcing it out... it leaves a feeling of ultimate relaxation... do it a couple of times till u dnt feel really gud and ur body lightens... I am sure u'll feel gud, with the very first go..

this is a well known method of relaxation..!!! tested and tried.. :)

now lets think abou the SYSTEM i ws talkin abou... the so called LIFE..

a few days ago... i was jst thinking abou Lyf... now how shud we describe it?

u are born.. raised by ur parents.. (and here starts the trend) u go to school to learn some facts, whre u seem to rather socialize more than u learn.. ;-) and here u grow older with all the schooling done, and u start earning money...

u initially start earning to support and help ur family, which pulls u deeper into the System.. for u later start loving the GREEN LEAVES tht u get by the end of the month.. whre it cud be in Dollars, Rupees or Euro... and unknowingly u end up spending all ur time (which u were suppose to use to live and explore the real Life) following a system...

The System: Originally established by our ancestors.. long loooong time ago.. when we thought of making an organised world..

if u study the history of mankind and the way things started taking place.. u will know how it started with the civilizations back then, whre goods were exchanged for goods, and how the idea of marraige and education, different professions and the idea of "earn to live" came into existence..

it started to become a fight for survival, for the one who worked for THE SYSTEM survived. and long time ago, we modified it with the introduction of currency.. or i shud say MONEY..

Money became the back bone of this system, and it has strengthened itself in time.

WAT WE LIVE... BECOMES OUR LIFE...

so we started living the System long time ago, and hence It has become our Life now..

its really hard to change the system set in such a long time, bt we can certainly enjoy some part of our life, our real life..

Just think abou it.. to enjoy nature these days we need to shell out money..

in a way, this system has overcome and prohibited us from real life..

Wen it comes to life... ours is exactly the same as of any other mammal..

Be it a dog, cat, horse or any for that matter..

• We all eat/drink to keep our body alive.
• We all mate for pleasure, but making it a way of reproduction. (and human seek for pleasure more than any other species. And our current population is the solid proof to this.. :D )
• And for all of us... our body dies..

so wats next...

better late than never... lets first understand the facts... the real life..

Far vast than the system we live.. and beautiful..

whre u enjoy evry moment of it.

And how shall we begin our journey???

by first, thinking about life... yes... guys.. its very important to think.. when we usually think of something (which happens evry now and then), we really dOnT think abou it intensly bt jst let the thought go through our head.. its kind of current that passes through our brain.

lets collect some of these beautiful currents.. and then think about it again...

Thinking continuously a same thought enforces It... and hence eventually it manifests into reality.

Think gud... think natural.. think about nature..

jst think about it... take urself back ages... yes..

jst think... if we would have been back then.. we wouldnt have spent soo much to visit hill stations.. rather we would have lived it..!! Nature is beautiful.. And Beauty is the proof of nature..!!

we all love nature.. and cant simply miss the most beautiful part of our life.. and yes it is nature so be in it.. be in the beauty of nature for thats exactly in U...

Wats a better way of Insight???

Jst think how true is the System to you. Most of our lives, we spend following the trend..

All is System around u..!!! its really hard to know wats true?? for the guy u call ur best buddy, might be lukin at ur pocket while shaking hands wid u..!! Nearly everyone is corrupt dear..

[i m one of the luckiest to hv some true frends..] :)

and if u have read so far... I GUARANTEE U... U R DIFFERENT.. AND FOR SURE WILL KNW THE TRUTH TODAY OR SOME TIME LATER..

Frends..!! it might offend many of u wen i call marraige a system..

bt do u really think its as true as it luks to be and as it is suppose to be?? No further comments on it.. but just think about it for a minute.. and u will get the answer..:)

well.. that doesnt mean u start spying or scrutinizing ur partner.. for if this is NOT TRUE.. ITS NATURAL wat seems to be wrong in the system... thats why i included marraige as a part of system.. AS ONLY SYSTEM CAN BE CORRUPT.. i hope u get the above complicated statement.. yes it is complicated for a complicated brain.. so its time to do some breathing once again.. :D

Guys.. i only want u to know the truth.. and not mend the system.. for thats not too easy to be done alone... SO PLEASE MARRY AND LIVE A HAPPY LIFE.. :D bt dnt forget to treat ur frends.. :D including me.. :D

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Nw let me tell u a short story..

well.. this is sumthin that happened quite recently.

whre I work, we have a system called INCENTIVEs.. u work gud and take all ur breaks correctly.. u can earn some extra bucks..

Now, all this happened a couple of weeks ago, for i was a lil out of the system, stopped focussing at my work the way I shud as an employee.. had been doing things just for the sake of it..

and came the day of surveys.. (u get weekly surveys here from customers).

Now for all of my colleagues know how I am.. Money is something tht doesnt fancy me at all.

so.. whre was I.. yes.. an average performer, and the surveys kind of displayed the same.. Avg..

So here called my boss.. she said "i know u dnt care about money and stacks(ranking), bt i do. Ur surveys hit me.. U KNOW THAT..!!!?? ". She did mean that alot at that point of time, i cud sense that..

Let me tell u one thing.. My boss is really an awesome lady.. She is very human.. and is full of love within. But money and the system is quite powerful and has an influence of its kind. Although she later came and apologized for dat, i dnt know why? maybe the Gud god in her woke up a bit late though..

Now, this month I scored 2 top boxes (top surveys).. a decent score to get a gud ranking and hence incentive.. bt for me.. money is not even near to the primary needs..

so i happened to exceeded my breaks making me out stacks.. but I am happy for i didnt let the team down.

This brought the reactions of my team mates.. for all they care alot abou me, in a sweet way scolded me for getting out of the ranking/stacks.. Now how to explain them about my point of view...

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thinking ???!!!! wats the moral of the story above..

sumtimes when u r trying to lead the real life, u end up getting questioned.. and pointed out, and even scrutinized for wat u do.. for thats not the system, and hence it appears to be weird..

WAT TO DO IN SUCH A SITUATION???

SILENCE... yes... its really hard to explain in person, wat I have easily written here in this blog..

I leave the hardwork to those brains (left and right) in ur head.. Its U who shud think and Not Me forcing u to it...

My point is not to come on the roads with empty pocket the next day.. :D

Kill MONEY WITH MORE MONEY..!! BUT NVR DIE FOR IT..!! now i m sure thats goin to make u really dizzy..!! :D :D

relax and THINK.. THINK.. And THINK..

U will make the right choice.. but wen u think... PLEASE TRY TO THINK OUT OF THE SYSTEM.. that is.. think with ur EMPTY BRAIN....!! trust me.. it holds the answer to all ur questions.. :D

And... yes.. dont u ever forget or ignore the human sins....

Namely:{ PRIDE~~ENVY~~ANGER~~SLOTH~~GREED~~GLUTTONY~~LUST }

The moment u commit a sin, just acknowledge it.. try not to do it again... that would be enough to keep u goin in the rite direction.. ;)

now.. HAPPY THINKING GUYs... JUST LOVE EVRYONE/EVRYBODY AND URSELF....!!

Hope to get back soon...

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God is AGELESS..!! so are U...!!!

Hmm... this is goin to be interesting...

You knw why.. coz its goin to be more effective than any fairness/anti-wrinkle cream that you have ever used... :D :D see !! You want to knw more.. :D

Its human... that we think and wish to look charming, beautiful and handsome... nothings wrong in it though... bt we forget somethin very important here.. yes... thats wat I am goin to help u understand.

have you ever noticed urself... whenever u look in a mirror, u tend to smile and try to appear gud.

wat is it that makes u do so?? the urge to look gud...

now u dnt have to have a very well shaped face to be appealing and attractive...

well.. lets first understand one thing... the logic behind wrinkles or dark circles on a human face..

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Our body is a self healer... we have this limitless capability to protect our self.. be it physical or mental self... (sadly.. we only focus on our physical self).

Your face is a mirror... it shows exactly wats inside.. (pls note: it has nothing to do with the shade of ur skin)..

so as i said before.. our body is a self healer.. if we get a bruise on it, it heals itself in time.. and this body process keeps goin on.. our biological process nvr stops.. it breathes, secrete hormones, it keeps ur reflexes alert and active.. you eat the same food... same minerals.. same vitamins.. etc.. bt then wat happens wen you get older??

why do you tend to luk older with time.. did you evr think abou it??

i knw u nvr did.. coz u r busy... ;) bt i think this is the answer to the question above..

well.. jst think about it.. wen ur body functions doesnt change.. then why does it start fading with time...

to help you understand this:- I m sure u must have seen young kids luk comparetively old.. we call them mature kids.. :)

now wat is this... the reason behind wrinkle on your face are thoughts of your mind... WHEN YOU HAVE TOO MANY WRINKLED THOUGHTS IN YOUR MIND... IT TENDS TO SHOW ON YOUR FACE AS WELL.....

yes dear.. thats why we see all those yogis who appear so charming and with a particular aura around them... wat is it? its the beauty of thoughts they carry on their face..

So keep your spirits young...

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with every passing moment, we tend to learn new things... and this is when we start getting into the world of material things... though its very difficult to come across real nature these days... for the earth is all covered with tar and road... we have all the space covered so that we can drive smoothly on it, leaving no space to walk... :(

so... the next question is.. how to be happy evrytime... its almost impossible.. is it??

Let me help you here.. Follow some simple rules...

Rule 1: NEVER DO ANYTHING FOR WHICH YOU REGRET LATER...

Rule 2: IF YOU MADE A MISTAKE IN LIFE, DNT REGRET IT FOREVER...

Rule 3: Always remember and avoid these DISORDERs in your life:-

Namely:PRIDE~~ENVY~~ANGER~~SLOTH~~GREED~~GLUTTONY~~LUST

Rule 4: ALWAYS REMEMBER THE ABOVE 3 RULES.. ( THE MOST IMPORTANT) :D

Doing anything that brings happiness... can NEVER be a waste of time....!!!

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.

SO always do exactly wat you wish to do from the bottom of your heart... always do things for yourself and not others... if you bring smiles on other's face... do it for you like to see that smile on others... this way.. u will nvr expect anythin in return.. and this will always keep u at ease..

DO ONLY WAT YOU REALLY LIKE TO DO !!!

how would u know wat u exactly like to do?? wats gud for you???

sounds funny... ??? thats true that many of us dnt even know wat are our favourites... !!!

no problem...

so here's a way you can get the answer....

before you go to sleep... jst think: you are left with 2 days of life... and then u will die...

And then think of everything that you miss in your life... that you like to do and you can do...

Be it : singing, gardening, dancing, vacation at a hillstation... meeting your close frends... letting your loved ones know that you really love them... ANYTHING THAT YOU THINK THAT YOU WOULD MISS AFTER DEATH...

Just dont wait... start spending time on yourself... for yourself.. and trust me.... you would really not need cosmetics to keep you charming and glowing...!! FOREVER!!!!

Feel gud for wat you are.. !!!

for you are special in a way or other.. !!! dnt feel proud... bt be happy about it..

World loves you and so do you love this world...

and dnt forget to smile... wenever you get time and opportunity... its gud for you...

TOO MUCH OF KNOWLEDGE FOR THE DAY!!! rite ??... so listen to this song.. u will feel gud!!..:D

enjoy ur life to the fullest...!!!

Miracles and Patience in a Spiritual Life: An amazing fact..!!.

Helloo Frendss.. i found these words (which is amazingly the same as wat i think) on internet...

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I'd like to tell you about the role of patience when living a spiritual life. In the very beginning, let me clarify that this letter is meant for people who have already attained a certain level of spiritual awareness, have gone through a considerable amount of healing process, and who are already aware of their "journey" or purpose of this life time. If all this sounds gibberish to you, this letter will probably make no sense.

We have all heard the overused idiom "patience is a virtue", however if you think about it that’s quite an idiotic thing to say only by itself. Patience about what? That something good will happen? That if you wait long enough circumstances will change? If you have no pattern or trend to base your decision to be patient, then you could be waiting for all eternity and get no results. I am not talking about that type of patience. The patience I am referring to has to do with opening yourself up to miracles in everyday life. The patience I am talking about is only 20% of the equation. So what is the other 80%? Here goes:

50% Faith + 30% Guided Action + 20% Patience = Miracles 

Let me clarify what each of these terms mean as all of these words have lost their meaning due to overuse.

Faith: Faith is the knowingness that your life is being guided by the all pervading intelligence that most of us call God. That you are part of God, experiencing life in a human body, going through a great adventure the end of which is merging back to where you came from. It is the true knowing (not belief which is only the minds working hypotheses, a fill in the blank where knowledge is not available) that you are not your body, you are not even your mind, you are definitely not what you have accumulated in this lifetime or your degrees or relationships. It is the knowing that you are beyond all of that, you are part of the Great Spirit, of God, participating in this illusion called physical life and playing a part in a cosmic drama. Faith is knowing that your role in this enormous drama is more than just your personal needs and desires. That there is more to this story than what your conscious, thinking, rational, analytical mind can understand. Faith is knowing that you are being guided, you always have been, you always will be.

Guided Action: If you truly understand the above and actually have faith, then you have already experienced direct communication from God. You have received signs and heard the voice of God in many ways; sometimes through people, sometimes through books, sometimes through dreams, or sometimes through one of the countless many ways that God chooses to communicate with us. You may have chosen to ignore it, you may have doubted it or you may have followed it, but whatever is the case, if you have FAITH, you are aware of the guidance...

When you have stood in a cross road of life and asked God what should I do, invariably God gives you a sign and speaks softly in your heart about the right path to take. When you listen to that guidance communicated through synchronicities and teachers and butterflies and stars in the sky... and you take action based on that inspiration, you have completed the second step. This is guided action. This is asking for help at every cross road of your life because you realize that you (your conscious ego mind) simply don't know what is the best course for to take since you cannot see the infinite interconnection between all things through all eternity. It is waiting for the answer and then when you absolutely feel the right way in your heart, taking the guided action.

Patience: Far from waiting for things to change, patience in a spiritual life is remembering the saying of King Solomon "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven." It is knowing that sometimes what is waiting for you is so much bigger and better than what you want right now that it’s not even funny. It’s realizing that everything has a perfect time to unfold, that all that our heart desires will be fulfilled, but before it is fulfilled we have to

 learn a lesson, we have to grow, and we have to become ready to receive what is waiting for us. Like children we want the candy NOW, but the ultimate Teacher knows if you give the child the treat before he has learnt his lesson, he cannot even appreciate what he has received. Patience is realizing that the whole universe is revolving around EACH of us. And all that we want, all that

 we seek, all that we ask for will all come true, but we need to grow first. That is the purpose of this life.

Patience is a word we use because our mind cannot handle the word SURRENDER. Surrender can neither be taught nor explained. True surrender is falling in love

 with the divine Beloved. It is being One. Words are inadequate here so I will stop. Those of you who understand need no explanation, those of you who don't will have to make your own journey into understanding this.

Patience is resting into the knowingness that at the right time, in the most perfect way, the most perfect outcome will manifest your hearts desires. It is simply having faith, asking for guidance, taking the actions as guided, then resting in joy for you know... there is nothing to rush, nothing to push, never anything to push, nothing to struggle, nothing to wait for. Its simply KNOWING that... what will unfold will be nothing short of miraculous.

Miracles: Miracles are Gods gifts to us. They are bending of time, space, cause and effect. They are the most improbable happening in the most extraordinary way. They are the whole universe coming together to give you what you want (or sometime way beyond what you ever asked for). Miracles are divine candies; a way of God laughing and saying to us "There you go! Look how I bent all rules for you because you are my favorite child!" Miracles are Gods way of showing his (her?) love to us. But then again, these are words we use to explain miracles because our language has no proper words to explain what it really is. It’s a natural way the universe works, like the sun rising in the east, when you understand the deeper secrets of reality.

So one more time, here is the formula for you to create some real magic and miracles in this amazing journey called life. Write it down somewhere where you can see it every day:

50% Faith + 30% Guided Action + 20% Patience = Miracles! 

I hope this helps all of you to verbalize a little better what you may have always known in the depths of your hearts.

For those of you a little lost or need some help to begin, I have one word for you: Meditate.

Always with you on the journey back home...

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THESE AMAZING WORDS WERE FOUND at : 

http://redefineyourreality.blogspot.com/2009/05/spiritual-life.html

originally written by Shafin De Zane... whom i can gladly call an ideal spiritual guide... Thanks bro...!!!

tHe dAy wE MEt gOd...

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~~ we were a group of six frends on a divine journey to Vaishno Devi... (one of the most sacred places on Earth..in India)..

7 hours, 12 kilometres (7.45 miles) walk, uphill... on the mountain path... with people around you, who came in search of gOd.. 

..on our way.. with all the energy and enthusiasm... we were walking, on our path.. shouting out loud "Jai Mata Di"...!!

On ur way to Vaishno Devi.. all around u see, is the serene nature.. which you have always wanted to be a part of.. the nature which gives u the strength to do the impossible..

tired but not lost.. still on our way.. we had a motivator among us.. if she would read this, I am sure she would get to know... 

well.. everything was goin fine... we were all packed up with two back-packs... a wonderful journey..

bt in our mind was all God... coz that is wat we were here for...

i dnt knw if my frends have noticed... 

bt in our journey... we met God...

it is wen we covered more than half of the journey..

he was there in a rugged cloth... dressed up as a begger... 

... he was there watching all of us.. and looking for an opportunity..

God met us on our way.. I still remember his eyes... whre he had that shiny beautiful eyes... eyes like i have never seen... eyes that looked for truth... 

his eyes were commanding.. as he luked at us... this is the fact only my frends knw who were there wid me.. I am nt sure if they recognised him or not... bt he came out of nowhere.. straight to me.. 

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when he commanded.. 

bt he said... "main aapke paer (legs) dawa doon....??," (can I massage your leg??) 

 i replied.. "are nahi...!!"  (oh no..!!)

I still remember... I dnt knw why all of a sudden I asked him: 

"Aapko kya chahiye...??"  (wat do you want??) and 

he replied: "mujhe ek icecream chahiye.."(i need one icecream..)...

yes... thats wat the begger asked for... an icecream... bt why not money??

well.. thats all we talked..

at that moment... I was completely out of my senses... so i dnt remember which icecream i bought him... all this happened in a quick fraction of time...

and we moved on.. 

as we walked ahead I luked back... and he was luking at me... with his sparkling eyes... eyes.. i have never seen before.. it luked straight into me.. and he started eating the icecream...

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this is the first time I met god sooo closely... 

there were 20-25 devotees sitting on the sidewalk.. and we were a bunch of young chaps... having cup of coffee/tea.... why did he come straight to us???

as I said earlier... u have God in you... its in u.. wat makes u do good... all that you do.. with positive intention has God in it.. and god knws wen to show up.. and give u the chance to show the god in u...

i am sure you didnt get wat I said..

let me tell you guys.. wen u r sincere... u have a god in u..

wen u r in love.. you have god in u..

wen u r in pain... he is in u..

wen u r alone.. he is in u..

wen u r in a crowd.. he is in u..

where ever you are... watever u do.. and wenever... God is in u.. and He is in others around u... he is everywher.. just as it is said in the video in my previous post..

it is wen u see the god in you... u see the god in others... 

and it is wen u see the god in others... the god in you shows up on you..!!!!

guys... one's eyes are the mirrors, his spirit... and it is your eyes, which tell the others abou the god in you...

u dnt have to do anything for this to happen... all u have to do is be gud.. like Jesus did..

sounds easy.. right???

bt u knw wat??... for many of us, it is the hardest thing to do in life...

coz a human does everything with an expectation to get something gud in return...

 

try to be gud to everyone and anyone... try to be gud in your gud times and in the bad..

 try to be gud to those who does not return to u the same way... 

try to be gud who beats u... and u see.. the human in u will wake up.. and do wat it knows....

it is human to fight back with wat is thrown at him... bt its godly if u throw flowers back on those, who throw stone at you...

it is the hardest thing for a man to do... bt why??

becoz we humans are full of sins..

Namely:{ PRIDE~~ENVY~~ANGER~~SLOTH~~GREED~~GLUTTONY~~LUST }

as i said in the previous post..

it is wen you rise high above all the sins that you see the God... the god would be in the person sitting next to you... bt u have to recognise him.. and let me tell you... wen you see the god in the other... it is the god in the other who talks to you....

and u see that everyone you meet.. loves u... after all love is god... isnt it??...

wen u see all humans around u.. u find that you are one of them.. and do wat a human does...

bt it is wen u find the god in everyone u meet... the god in u shows up.. and that is exactly wat shows on u... yes.. it gets u the Aura and the charm thats just the smallest part of god's grace..

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well... let me tell u wat happened when we reached at the top... at Vaishno Devi..

for some reason.. that was the day.. wen over 2 lakh devotees gathered there... people were sleeping on the sidewalks for the past couple of days, waiting for their chance to see and visit the main temple/cave.. and here were we... came from Delhi, with limited time in hand, as all of us had work to catch up with, the next day on...

wat to do?? we were all puzzled.. one of us tried to get a VIP pass with her approach, which was very promising.. until we got to know that the temple authority is not issueing any passes or tickets to get in.. although we had the general tickets, bt with the overwhelming croud.. it was pretty abvious that we would not get through, atleast on that day... also we had to first get a locker room for ourselves where we could keep all our belongings.. which seemed to be impossible to get one... for the queue for that locker room was some 100 people long.. without any movement.. as the lockers were all booked..

we were at the verge of returning home without seeing the main temple... 

and here again came out of nowhere.. two guys.. who pro-actively approached us... asking us to use their locker... they simply offered us their keys and asked to keep our belongings there and return their's..

this is the rarest of the cases and with all this we got a locker room.. and we all headed to the main temple... with all the heavy croud ahead.. pushing through them.. we managed to get into the main gate and now all we had to do... is to wait.. wait for our turn... and finally.. we saw those amazing, serene and one of the most divine God's place.. 

that was one hectic, completely exausting day... we all were completely tired bt amazingly happy for wat we have achieved...

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bt I am gonna tell you the truth now... I could not find the god within the cave where those sacred god's image is... 

i felt the god is not there anymore... god is out there.. within many of us... 

bt i still remember... when his eye raised and said.. I need an icecream... 

~~~ i think he got wat he needed... which was definitely not the icecream....~~~

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listen to the voice... he is saying somthing.. its gOd speaking.. please dnt ignore him..!!..

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Thats wat we do when we hear HIM...we ignore him... wE all prAy to oUr gOds...
but dO we rEallY understaNd hIs lanGuage??



hmm... so... wats god's language... is it Sanskrit?? or may be eNglish ??
or is it Bhagwat Gita/Bible/Kuran... or any holy book, from whre we can learn to speak his language???
but wat abou the rest of the wOrld then... hw will they talk to gOD..???


So do tHey need a translator... or i should say a Medium..
or god doesnt exist for them..
And the answer is NOooooooooooooooo...!!!
yes a big one.. :)


you knw why?? coz god does not use languages we developed.. think abou it... is it not funny when you are talking to god in English... or Hindi or for that matter.. any language that exists in the world... are those languages not meant for us.. for mankind ?... yes it is..


Then hw will we understand GOD... ??


SO LET ME TELL YOU THE SECRET....

GOD talks through fEelings and thoughts..(your first thought....THE SUBCONSIOUS)..

yes... dnt be confused... its SIMPLE... but easy to ignore..

thats right..


OK.. let me give the best example for when you heard the GOD in YOU...
Remember your recent mistake that you made intentionally... (yes mistakes Happen, but many times we do it intentionally/knowingly)..


you realize the mistake you made the moment you commited it...
wHen you accidentally hurt someone... or someones feeling... you realize wat you did that moment itself... through guilty...


so whos in you... showing ur wrongs??
Thats the GOD... yes the GOD In yOU.. u dnt believe that...


so lets take another point here...
this is general... and I am sure all who can read this blog, must have gone through this...
"lets say.. you are upset due to some reason... and u r sitting alone...
and suddenly your Mom/sis or anyone from your family comes to you, calling for a cup of tea/coffee.. to join them..


and in return you shout back at them... and ask them to leave you alone..."


just think of the last time something like this happened to u...


I am sure.. u might have felt bad for shouting at them, the moment you gain your consciousness..
so wats happening here??
that is exactly wat happens when you ignore the GOD in you...


SO HERE... LETS TRY TO DEFINE GOD... which cannot be done just in words...

but dnt you think that we can define him as THE FEELING that makes us REALIZE our MISTAKES and ENCOURAGES us to DO GOOD...


GOD IS THE ONE WHO TELLS YOU WATS RIGHT AND WATS WRONG... in your subconscious mind..


many a times it happens... that someone shouts at you out of anger and the next moment he apologizes for the same... thats when he hears the god in him...
right...


so wat do you notice in the above scenario???
ANGER is one thing that makes you deaf to God's voice..
and thats why getting ANGRY is a SIN...

here, let me share wid you the GREAT KNOWLEDGE OF SINs... yes..
Y this knowledge is great???
coz knowing this will change your life and everytime you are to commit a sin, make you realize that you are doing it wrong... which should further stop you doing it.. only if you care to...


REMEMBER: THE BEST AND THE EASIEST WAY TO COME NEAR TO GOD (which makes you godly), IS BY OVERCOMING THESE SINs...
basically... we commits seven types of SINs in our daily life... every now and then..
Namely:{ PRIDE~~ENVY~~ANGER~~SLOTH~~GREED~~GLUTTONY~~LUST }

• VAINGLORY/PRIDE

Mother of all sins.
What it is: Pride is excessive belief in one's own abilities, that interferes with the individual's recognition of the grace of God. It has been called the sin from which all others arise. Pride is also known as Vanity.

Why you do it: Well-meaning elementary school teachers told you to "believe in yourself."

Associated symbols & suchlike: Pride is linked with the horse and the color violet.

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ENVY 

What it is: Envy is the desire for others' traits, status, abilities, or situation.

Why you do it: Because other people are so much luckier, smarter, more attractive, and better than you.

Associated symbols & suchlike: Envy is linked with the dog and the color green.

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WRATH/ANGER

What it is: Anger is manifested in the individual who spurns love and opts instead for fury. It is also known as Wrath.

Why you do it: You're wired for it. Also, the people around you are pretty damn irritating.

Associated symbols & suchlike: Anger is linked with the bear and the color red.

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SLOTH/SADNESS (acedia)

What it is: Sloth is the avoidance of physical or spiritual work.

Why you do it: You're shiftless, lazy, and good fer nuthin'.

Associated symbols & suchlike: Sloth is linked with the goat and the color light blue.

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AVARICE/GREED

What it is: Covetousness is the desire for material wealth or gain, ignoring the realm of the spiritual. It is also called Greed.

Why you do it: You live in possibly the most pampered, consumerist society since the Roman Empire.

Associated symbols & suchlike: Covetousness is linked with the frog and the color yellow.

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GLUTTONY

What it is: Gluttony is an inordinate desire to consume more than that which one requires.

Why you do it: Because you were weaned improperly as an infant.

Associated symbols & suchlike: Gluttony is linked with the pig and the color orange.

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LUST

What it is: Lust is an inordinate craving for the pleasures of the body.

Why you do it: Oh, please.

Associated symbols & suchlike: Lust is linked with the cow and the color blue.

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Now as we knw wat sins are all abou, you knw wat to do abou it...

I am sure you can use this knowledge in every aspect of life...

and this will bring you near to God...

and hence will you share his grace...

Wish you a happy and divine life ahead...

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